Movie of the Week: Spirited Away (2011)

Hayao Miyazakis horror film for children (or adults alike) tells a story about a brave 10-year-old girl, Chihiro who gets lost in a ghost town alone and how she manages to escape and find her parents again. I’ve never had a thing on anime, but have become more and more interested on this special genre with fans of all ages and will definitely watch more in the future.

Much like in a dream,  most of the film takes place in a maze with all kinds of weird spirits and monsters with days and nights passing by. Chihiro manages to overcome the obstacles and with courage and kindness get even the toughest spirits on her side. This was one of the major themes of the film, as something for kids to learn from and for some of us grown ups too. Other important themes of the film are the environmental impact of humans and capitalism. The environmental damage can be seen in the scene of the stinky spirit entering the bathhouse, filled with all kind of nasty waste. Capitalism on the other hand is presented as Yubaba taking Chihiros name, thus forcing her to create new identity, as well as presenting how the other humans and spirits work hard for her.

A rather long film (125 min) but for sure, keeps the viewer entertained during the film and leaving a lot to think about afterwards.

⭐⭐⭐⭐ / 5

Traveling and moving around took almost a decade of my life!

It’s finally starting to feel like I’m settling down somewhere. I somehow expected that it would be Finland, just didn’t believe that I’d have what it takes to live and work abroad. But here I am, in the capital of Scandinavia: Stockholm! The past two years I’ve only traveled between Finland, Sweden and Estonia, as studying and working took most of my time. But now, a trip to Miami and New York is coming up in May and I’m super excited!I’ve been browsing through some old pictures and noticed how much I’ve developed as a photographer and how sad it now feels that I wasn’t able to document all my adventures properly, which is something I’ve improved a lot, but there’s still a long way to go. We’re never ready or perfect. I started this blog when I moved to Korea, but somehow didn’t know what I supposed to write or post here. At that time I thought all blogs were just about fashion and lifestyle content that just felt too shallow to me. Later on, writing a blog for Study in Sweden really helped to grow as a writer, although I couldn’t focus on my own blog while writing there.The biggest downsides of the lifestyle that sometimes has made me feel like I have an ADHD, having no idea what I’m doing or where I’m going, have been the lack of stability, both financially and with interpersonal relationships. Especially now when the constant urge for moving around and living out of a suitcase has vanished and I’d want to buy an apartment hopefully not too far in the future, but it feels like some major parts of me are still somewhere else than Sthlm. But I guess I’ve finally grown old enough to think further than next month. And I have been thinking, what if things would have gone as I originally planned: getting some boring job in Finland, getting married and having children around 25… I mean, happiness is really a matter of state of mind and I’m sure my life could be as happy as it is now, but I’m also pretty sure I’d feel I’d have missed out on something.Strangely, I couldn’t find any New York pictures, although I lived there for a year. So that’s one thing on my to-do list for the next trip, another one is to check out some thrift stores.And about feeling sorry for all the time I’ve “waisted”: at the end, I don’t think that our biggest regrets will be how much time and money we spent on exploring the world. I don’t think my last thoughts will be: “I’d be at least 2000 euros richer if I hadn’t done that South Korea exchange!” I feel I have the kind of richness money can’t buy.

Book of the Month: The Art of Being Kind (Konsten att vara snäll)

I must admit. Read a lot of self-help. And most self-help is useless, as for most of us it’s just common sense. So was this book about being kind and what are the benefits of it. But I’m sure for some, Stefan Einhorn’s The Art of Being Kind is a good reminder of how, quite often, what you give is what you get.

We have a lot to win by being kind to each other and a lot to lose by not being kind.

The book looks into kindness from many angles, from being kind associated with being stupid and simple to achieving goals by being kind to others. It’s actually a lot of thoughts in a small book and from time to time it feels like some of the things written weren’t really necessary, ranging from religions to white lies. But the pages had to be filled in order to get people to purchase the book. But I must say, I agree with almost everything said in the book and in a sense it was a nice way to collect together the aspects of kindness. And I’m not saying that it was a waste of time, I just think reading it once was enough for me. And at least, I learned new words in Swedish as it wasn’t available in English here. I try to be kind to others as well as I can, and think the world would be a better place if everyone was which pretty much sums up the point of the book.

If you’re too lazy to read the book or don’t have access to it, you can see the main points from the author’s TED talk video from a few years back.

Although personally I wasn’t a huge fan of this piece, but I tried to be kind in my evaluation. 🙂

⭐⭐ / 5

Movie of the Week: The Shape of Water

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I have to admit, I don’t really follow what’s going on in the cinemas. But after being invited to the movies and having the freedom to choose the film, I knew it would be this one. A film with 13 Oscar nominations can’t be bad, right?

A story about freaks and interracial love, where the creature from the Black Lagoon meets a mute woman who wants to rescue it. Very much the style of Guillermo del Toro, The Shape of Water is visually extremely pleasing with a cast of talented actors.

Short story, can’t wait to see how many Oscars Shape of Water will win.

⭐⭐⭐⭐/ 5

Shyness

Shyness is nice, and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You’d like to

Something I never realized until I moved abroad. Something very Finnish in me. People started telling me I was shy, asking why and how it was like. In Finland it was normal to be backward, turn red, or stutter when speaking in public. I wasn’t all of these, but every now and then I would turn red in tough situations. And it didn’t bother me too much. Until I left my home country. 

The first time I moved abroad was when I was 20. And of course, I moved to the land of extroversion and outgoingness. The USA. And the thing was that at first I didn’t even realize that shyness was something you should hide as good as you could. So I was being myself and wasn’t really willing to change that. I almost felt I was proud of it sometimes. When being asked “How is it like being shy?” I would respond: “It’s awesome”. The same thing followed me when I moved to Paris. I was once at a party with friends and some random guy started making fun of me because I was more quiet than the others. It didn’t really offend me, I just answered, “Yes, I am, can we talk about something else now?” But he wouldn’t stop. I was strong and could handle it, but I still feel bad for all the others he has possibly bullied. And personally, I don’t see shyness as something you should completely get rid off. It’s something that makes us human. And what makes us human, makes us beautiful.

It’s never black and white, it’s good and it’s bad. If shyness is really stopping you from living your life to the fullest, or you’re feeling so anxious in social situations that you rather stay home alone, even if you’d want to join, you might want to do something about it. You can start with little things, like exchanging extra few words with the cashier at a cafe or a supermarket. Their job is to be nice to you, so they’re usually pretty easy to begin with. And I still feel shy myself. Sometimes. Mostly when I have to speak Swedish. It’s my third language and takes much more effort than English and Finnish. And I have an accent when I speak. And sometimes, people make fun of it (friends who don’t mean it in a bad way, but still). So I really notice that I talk much less, feel uncomfortable and avoid situations I’m not familiar with when I know Swedish is involved. But, I’m working on it. Little by little.

So, if there’s something you’d like to try
If there’s something you’d like to try
Ask me, I won’t say no, how could I? 
And about that tattoo… It was my way to come out of the closet and support all of us who sometimes feel shy. And it’s also a great song.

 

Movie of the Week: RAW

This was on my watchlist ever since I read about it the first time, before it was released like two years ago. French people are good at making disturbing films and as I’m a horror fan, whenever there’s a new one out, I must see it. I love the lack of action and amount of daylight French movies have compared to the American ones. However, I’m also kind of sensitive and don’t watch films that seem too disturbing by myself. I knew a French guy who had seen this, but didn’t want to watch it again (not because he didn’t like it), so I had to wait until I found someone who’d agree watching this with me.

And a couple of days ago it finally happened. I have to admit, I read the plot beforehand, whenever it seems that I might lose sleep. And I did so with this one too, just so I could prepare myself. Watching the film wasn’t as shocking as I thought it would be, there weren’t  many intense scenes and not that much blood either. It’s a story of a young girl who’s beginning her studies at a veterinary school, where her older sister is already studying. She’s been a vegetarian all of her life and during the first week she’s made to eat a kidney of a rabbit. She then develops a taste for meat and it then turns out her sister has it too…

I really enjoyed watching RAW, a modern story about cannibalism and different compared to Cannibal Holocaust, Green Inferno, or Hannibal. And a great addition to the French horror genre.

⭐⭐⭐⭐ / 5

Mikä Ruotsissa ei ole paremmin?

1. Asuntotilanne

Iskee ensimmäisenä vasten kasvoja. Varsinkin vuokra-asunnoista on suuremmissa kaupungeissa aikamoinen pula. Vaikka parannusta on tulossa, varmin keino saada asunto on ostaa sellainen. Jaetun asunnon saa kokemukseni perusteella helposti, mutta asunnon jakaminen ventovieraan kanssa ei aina ole helppoa.

2. Verotus

Ruotsissa tuloverotuksen pohjana on kunnallisvero, joka asuinpaikasta riippuen huitelee n. 30 prosentin tienoilla. Keskituloisena tosin maksat vähemmän veroa kuin Suomessa. Alv:n yleinen verokanta on Ruotsissa 25 %, Suomessa 24 %. Alennetut verokannat taas ovat Ruotsissa matalammat: 12 % ja 6 %, verrattuna Suomen 14 % ja 10 %. Tosin Ruotsin korkeampi palkkataso tasaa vähän menetettyjä euroja tai kruunuja, joten en tämän takia muuttaisi takaisin Suomeen.

3. Pinnallisuus

Päätyössäni en tällä hetkellä törmää tähän, mutta työskennellessäni Mall of Scandinavian Mangossa, Tukholman yöelämästä puhumattakaan, tulee vastaan jatkuvasti Kim Kardashian-kopiota lipfillereineen ja silikoneineen. Aika oksettavaa. Pidän luonnollisuutta viehättävänä, tosin makunsa kullakin. Mallia Tukholmalaiseen elämäntyyliin voi ottaa esim. Snabba Cash-kirjasta: jos ylellisyyksiin ei muuten ole varaa, kannattaa asua mahdollisimman halvasti ja ajaa vaikka pimeää taksia öisin niin on sitten varaa skumppaan ja Gucciin.

4. Hymistely

Tai ylenpalttinen poliittinen korrektius. Ei voi sanoa mitä tahansa mielipidettä ääneen, koska se voi olla väärä. Negatiivisten tunteiden näyttäminen on tietysti tuomittavaa. Tuntuu myös siltä, että Suomessa on hyväksyttävämpää olla sisäänpäinkääntynyt ja haluta olla omissa oloissaan. Ruotsissa small talkia on vaikeampi välttää, onhan se niin treeevligt puhua hölynpölyä jonkun puolituntemattoman kanssa!

5. Rajallinen mobiilinetti

Suomi saattaa olla tämän suhteen poikkeus. Kuka enää edes soittaa ja tekstaa puhelinliittymän kautta, kun on Facebook a Whatsapp? Kolme gigaa kuussa riittää jotenkuten, jos suurimman osan ajasta pitää datan pois päältä ja käyttää wifiä aina kun tilanne sallii. “Rajaton surf” eli 100 gigaa maksaa monta sataa kruunua kuussa, tosin vaikea kuvitella että kukaan onnistuisi noin suurta määrää edes käyttämään. Ilman nettiäkin tietysti pärjää, mutta yhden gigan kuukausisurfilla sinut voidaan leimata pihiksi…

6. Pidemmät työpäivät

Se kuuden tunnin työpäivä oli pelkkä kokeilu. Normaali työpäivän pituus on Ruotsissa yhdeksän tuntia, koska tunnin ruokatauko on pakollinen (ja tietysti palkaton) ja varsinainen työaika kahdeksan tuntia. Fyysisessä työssä se viimeinen tunti on usein hyvin, hyvin pitkä.

Kaikesta huolimatta viihdyn Suomenlahden tällä puolella edelleen hyvin. 🙂

Mitä tehdä turkiskuoriasille?

Törmäsin näiden iljetysten toukkiin ensimmäistä kertaa viime kesänä asuessani vanhempieni luona. Mulla on siellä jonkin verran vaatteita, joita käytän lähinnä vieraillessani. Tosin olen pikkuhiljaa yrittänyt “konmarittaa” niitä pois. Löysin siis kaapistani pari, onneksi kuollutta, toukkaa ja mielen valtasi heti paniikki. Vaikka vaatekaappini sisällön arvo vanhemmillani on max 100 euron luokkaa, en halunnut, että madot syö ne! Kaiken maailman ötökät ovat muutenkin vastenmielisiä, vaikka harvoin vaarallisia ovatkin. No, heitin paniikissa kaiken saunaan useammaksi tunniksi, toivoen ettei mikään tulisi sieltä ulos elävänä.

Tapaus unohtui mielestä varsin nopeasti, kunnes noin kuukausi sitten olin taas vanhemmillani ennen Tukholmaan muuttoani ja kävin lähes koko siellä olevan omaisuuteni läpi. Harrastin aiemmin aktiivisesti ompelua ja mulla on edelleen suht paljon kankaita. No, villakangaspalan sisältä paljastui ikävä yllätys… Taas pari toukkaa! Onneksi tosin vain pari. Ja kangaspala oli sen verran pieni, että sen saattoi surutta heittää pois. Kävin kaikki loput kankaat läpi, enkä löytänyt merkkejä ötököistä, joten pakkasin ne muovisiin laatikoihin. Näin jälkikäteen ajateltuna olisi tosin voinut heittää ne ensin saunaan, mutta koska niille on harvemmin ollut käyttöä, ajattelin ettei sen niin väliä. Tämäkin tapaus unohtui nopeasti.

Noin viikko sitten järjestelin “vaatekaappiani” (kolmea IKEA-kassia) täällä Tukholmassa. Parhaaseen talvihattuuni oli tarrautunut, ylläri, ylläri, toukka! Ja tällä kertaa vieläpä elossa. En ollut aluksi 100% varma, mikä eläin oli kyseessä, mutta nopean Googlettamisen jälkeen paljastui sen olevan tietysti turkiskuoriaisen alkuvaihe. Kuvien näkeminen koneelta sai minut kiljumaan ääneen ja paniikki iski. Ehkä kaikki vaatekassini olisivat täynnä niitä. Ja tällä kertaa vaatteet, joista oikeasti pidän ja joita käytän päivittäin. Olin säilyttänyt vaatteita samalla tavalla jo Umeåssa asuessani ja tapa ei tietenkään ollut se paras mahdollinen. Olin onneksi jo tilannut lipaston vaatteille, joten säilytysratkaisu muuttuisi pian.

Lueskelin, miten kyseisistä elukoista pääsee eroon ja pääasiassa tapoja on kolme:

1. Pesu tarpeeksi kuumassa (ne ei ylipäätään kestä vettä erityisen hyvin, mutta varmuuden vuosi kannattaa käyttää mahd. kuumaa vettä, esim. 60 astetta.

2. Sauna, 2-3 tuntia riittää.

3. Tarpeeksi kauan pakastaminen. Riippuen lähteestä 1-2 viikkoa -20 asteessa.

Ruotsissa asumisen huono puoli on se, ettei saunaa löydy läheskään joka talosta, toisin kuin  Suomessa, joten ainoat tavat päästä mahdollisista ötököistä eroon olivat pesu ja pakastaminen. Pesin kaikki konepesua kestävät tekstiilit 6o- asteessa ja paremmat villapaidat yms. laitoin pakastimeen. Osa on edelleen siellä kun kaikki ei mahtunut kerralla. En löytänyt onneksi kuin yhden toukan ja senkään alkuperä ei ole selvillä. Se voi olla Umeåsta, Vantaalta, tai Tukholmasta, joten panikointi on kai aika turhaa, se saattoi olla tarttunut matkaan vanhemmiltani, sillä se on ainoa paikka, missä olen niitä aiemmin nähnyt.

Luin monta nettikeskustelua aiheesta, mikä rauhoitti mieltäni hieman. Niitä on lähes kaikissa, varsinkin vanhemmissa taloissa ja niistä kokonaan eroon pääseminen on lähes mahdotonta. Vaikka omassa asunnossasi ei niitä olisikaan, ne voivat levitä asunnosta toiseen. Kirpputorilla käynyt ystäväsi saattaa tuoda niitä asuntoosi, tai käyt itse kylässä asunnossa, jossa on niitä. Jos ne pääsevät kehittymään aikuiseksi ja lisääntymään, on niitä hankala pysäyttää. Onneksi turkiskuoriaset lisääntyvät hitaasti, joten koko asuntoa ne eivät yleensä pääse täyttämään. Yleinen siisteys auttaa pitämään ne kurissa. Kannattaa imuroida ja vaihtaa pölypussi usein ja siivota vaatekaapit säännöllisesti. Älä jätä vaatteita lojumaan lattioille ja pidä pyykkikori mahdollisimman tyhjänä. Hyvä puoli tavaran ja vatteiden karsimisessa on se, että mitä useammin käytät ja peset vaatteita, sitä vaikeampi niihin on pesiytyä. Ostin itse vakuumipusseja, joihin säilöin talvivaatteeni ja vaatteet, joita käytän vain harvoin.

Jos ötököitä on paljon ja kyseessä on koko taloyhtiön ongelma, kannattaa kutsua myrkyttäjä. Vuokra-asunnoissa vuokranantaja on velvollinen hoitamaan tuholaisongelmat, jos ei voida osoittaa ongelman aiheutuneen vuokralaisen takia. Myrkytyskään ei kuitenkaan välttämättä poista ongelmaa pysyvästi. Onneksi muutaman ötökän kanssa pystyy vielä elämään. Ja vaikka ne pitkän ajan kuluessa tuhoavat erityisesti parempia tekstiilejä, tuho on hidasta ja hyvin vältettävissä vaatteiden säännöllisellä pesulla. Huonekalut saattavat myös kelvata niille, mutta harvemmin ne varsinaisesti pesiytyvät niihin. Imurointi ja siivous auttavat tässäkin paljon.

Voimia kaikille, jotka kamppailevat tuholaisten kanssa!

Living out of a suitcase, or moving abroad with all your belongings?

So, I’m finally starting to settle down! I’m still looking for a nine to five job from Stockholm, but at least so far it seems promising and I have one job interview scheduled for next week. There seems to be quite many jobs here that require Finnish, my native language, so I feel pretty confident that I’ll find something. Anyway, I’ve now moved almost all of my belongings from Umeå and Helsinki to Sthlm and wanted to write down some of my thoughts about living abroad and constant moving.

So far I’ve lived in six countries: Finland, US, France, South Korea, China and now Sweden. Only in Sweden and Finland I’ve lived for a longer period of time, the rest were between four months and a year, so in most cases I lived out of a suitcase. I hate to say this, but for most of my life I’ve been a quite materialistic person and wanted to have a lot of stuff around me. Moving several times has definitely helped me to realize how little we actually need to survive.

My current residence in Långbro.

I’ve been very lucky to have a family living next to Helsinki and I was allowed to stay as long as I wanted. The first time I moved out was at 20 when I moved to the US for a year to work as an Au Pair. Then at 23 to study in Paris for one semester. After that I received a student apartment from Espoo with 50 square meters just for my self. Of course, that 50 square meters had to be filled with stuff…

After living in the flat for a year I was accepted to a student exchange again, this time in South Korea. My sister moved into my flat for that time, but it didn’t work out well, and as I stayed in Asia for another six months I had to empty the apartment. And that was a mess. I had hoarded books I was never intended to read, I had two racks of fancy clothes and a bunch of not so fancy ones in my closets. And my favorite hobby: jigsaw puzzles took a lot of space too. As I didn’t have time to go though everything and see what I could donate or recycle, I just packed everything and it’s still haunting me.

It wasn’t until 2015 when I moved to Umeå and really decided to do something about the situation. As I would stay for at least a couple of years and Sweden being near Finland I had to opportunity to move with more than just a suitcase, however, not everything I own. It’s still a bit going on process as I have most of my puzzles and books in Finland, but slowly, I’m getting there. I now mostly own clothes that I really like and wear and I rarely buy new ones anymore.

My room back in Umeå, I didn’t have space for a lot of stuff.

Especially now when I’ve just moved and the only furniture I have here are my sofa, sofa table, a chair and a mirror I notice that many of our furniture are used for hiding all the stuff we own. Or at least, that’s how I feel about it. Now when all of my stuff is on the floor I can see how much there is. And the next thing on my shopping list is a dresser so I can get it out of my sight.

The shoes I brought with me to Umeå, maybe half of the shoes I actually own. How many pairs does a human need?

I read the KonMari book last summer and found it really inspiring. Especially now when my plan is to stay in Sweden and sooner or later get rid of all my stuff in Finland, I’ve found it useful to go through the things I own and get rid of the stuff I don’t really need. And to not buy anything I don’t need.Living out of a suitcase was never easy, I missed my art supplies, my photography equipment, my pillows and what not. But bringing everything to another country hasn’t been easy either. As I’m probably not going to live in this house for the rest of my life, I’ve been wondering how I’m going to deal with all my stuff when I have to move again?

I’m done with my orthodontics!

Some of the more unpleasant things in my life I’m now done with… Orthodontics! Also a three-year-process, though originally estimated to be 1,5 to 2 years. The first couple of months were definitely the worst. The braces were rubbing against my cheeks and from time to time it felt like my whole mouth was bleeding. Speaking was hard, though it only took a couple of weeks to get over the difficulties in pronunciation. One of the reasons why I waited until my adulthood was that I was scared how they would look like and would they make me less attractive. Would people take seriously an adult with braces? But as I got used to them I didn’t really think about them and people rarely commented on them. Probably most people wouldn’t even notice them. My teeth are pretty long and the brackets were glued so high up I had to smile really wide in order them to be visible. Also, having white brackets in my upper teeth made them slightly less visible. As I wrote on a post last spring, moving to Sweden made things a bit complicated. As Damon orthodontics aren’t really common in Finland and Sweden, finding a dentist here wasn’t easy. I had started in Oral in Helsinki and was really happy with the place from the beginning. Although it was a lot of pain, I could see a constant progress, which kept me motivated over time. There was no Damon dentist in Umeå, so I ended up in a place called Smajla in Stockholm. Smajla turned out to be a place I would not recommend to anyone and there was very little, if any progress after my visits there.So I returned to my dentist in Finland. As I couldn’t visit as often as earlier, the treatment took longer than expected, but finally It’s over. I have a wire behind my lower teeth to keep them in place and it’ll stay there until I die. I also have a retainer I wear at night and sometimes during the days. It makes speaking slightly difficult so if I know I have to do a lot of talking I just don’t wear it.At the end I’m happy that I finally have nice teeth. However, I was expecting the change to be bigger. Although I have straight teeth, my looks didn’t change that much. My teeth are still the same shape and one of my upper tooth is shorter than the one on the other side. They looked more symmetrical when they were twisted, but now the difference is more noticeable. Though, I’m planning to get a plastic extension on it in the future. I’m also whitening my teeth at the moment. So at the end, I’m happy that I did this. When getting started, two years felt like a long time and one of my friends thought I was insane for putting stuff in my mouth for such a “long” time. But time flies and hopefully, the results last for a lifetime. As I had a pretty bad overbite, sooner or later I most likely would have had to fix it anyway. One negative aspect I noticed after having braces for a few months was that I couldn’t whistle anymore. As my teeth had been changing positions, the airflow had also changed. So that’s something I have to learn again, I guess. 😗

After braces, pre-whitening.